Praise

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Everybody likes a compliment!

“I can live for two months on a good compliment.”
– Mark Twain.

That’s wonderful Mr. Twain, but I sincerely don’t think many people can live off of 6 compliments per year!

Who doesn’t love compliments? I know, I do. .it’s sheer happiness when someone praises you. It’s like all the ‘Self doubt’ is melting away. .when I hear people praising me, I get this big smile on my face. .

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Oh stop it you! 😇

But is it healthy?

As Freud has said, “we are able to defend ourselves from attack but never from a compliment.” After a while, we start craving for attention. It becomes a necessity to be approved by people. Thanks to social media, this pool of people has increased from family & friends to strangers. .

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Because who doesn't wana feel loved?

Do not judge me, but this was the scene a while back –
My heart : love this picture, upload it.
Brain : but would it fetch 100 or more likes?
Vanity : Ah! Apparently, No! Click another.
& before I forget to mention, Vanity wins. Almost all the time. .

But imagine, just imagine. . How peaceful your life would be, if no one needed any praise. .Imagine a world where people don’t desire to get attention. .where there is no need to be validated by others. .

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Sweet praises? Ignore.
Sour remarks? Ignore.

Iam not saying attention is bad. Iam saying, ‘need for attention’ is bad. Iam not saying ‘stop using social media & Go to himalayas & meditate’, Iam saying, ‘don’t give a damn to what people think. They don’t define you. You do.’

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Just relax. Breathe.

Moreover, Praises are an addiction. We often try to change ourselves to impress others. .to be good enough to get more accolades. .What we don’t realise is, how unhealthy it is. .Thanks to social media, we often surround ourselves with people who flatter us. .feign being genuine. .people who make us feel like we are trading compliments for compliments. .Validation for Validation & unfortunately, also, Judgement for Judgement. .Never trust a compliment in return of a compliment. .The fact is, you’ll find yourself in a happy place, the moment you stop trying to impress others. .

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Key to a healthy relationship is where there are no false pretences. .haven’t you heard of this famous line, “I love you, because I can be myself with you.” Well, why can’t you be yourself with others. What’s stopping you? It is okay to be you, without requiring constant affirmation from others. .accept yourself, accept others. .trust me, it’s a lot better than fighting for attention. .

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One guy commented on one of my Instagram post, “you just missed out on height, otherwise super hot.” Well, life is small and so am I. To be honest, for a while (actually more than a while) I worried, regretted my height (including pestering my friends with the same question again & again – am I too short?). .and for what? One lame comment? Was it even worth it?

It took me a long time to understand, it is okay not being perfect. And more importantly, it is okay when people say you’re not perfect.

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This world we live in, needs our patience, & yes, acceptance. .

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Never bottle up all your love, let it flow! There's nothing more beautiful than making someone feel loved. Belonging ❤

Just to be clear, I am not saying praises are bad. .Accept compliments, but don’t let it bolster your ego. .You don’t need them to feel beautiful. .don’t change yourself to please others. .Appreciate yourself. .You are beautiful, just the way you are! Find your peace. .

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Having said that, Never underestimate the power of random compliments. .they can make someone’s day. .See good in people. .

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Appreciate others. .Be kind. .Spread the love ❤

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207 Comments Add yours

  1. Awesome post as always! I agree with you. Learn to take the compliments with humility. Learn to ignore the negative criticism that is meant to bring you down. The spirit, soul, energy or whatever you would like to call it is PERFECT as it is and the rest is all imperfection. All of us need to understand that and be accepting of who we are because NO ONE is perfect and neither is life, situations, circumstances or others. That is the BEAUTY of it all! Moreover, I have been taught this by my parents, “Never give the remote control of your emotions to someone else because all they will do is push buttons at random.” So let’s not be affected by what other people say and think of us but be sure to have our own ideals and care about how we feel about ourselves. That type of strength is always inspirational!

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  2. Thank you!!!! I really needed this 😊

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  3. You have no idea how great it is to meet people who think like you! Iam still gushing reading the comment! Thank you so much! I always love your insights ❤

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  4. Thank you for appreciating it ❤

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  5. Great thinking with lots of positive things ….Dont say you ain’t beautiful ….be proud who you are . * Slow claps *

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  6. Aye you read it 🙈 wasn’t expecting you to finish to be honest, it’s a tad too long. .😝 but you did 😇 *happy happy* thank you so much ❤

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  7. Love this! Thank you! I find that when I see someone looking very nice or just being very nice, I tend to tell them just that. I know we all like to hear praise and I like the knowledge that I put a smile on his or her face. It’s good stuff. Great post, thanks for sharing.

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  8. Thank you so much for such a beautiful comment! This made me smile 😊

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  9. Super awesome post 🙂 Loved all the images and things about praise 😉 I know you are a strong girl and know that you know yourself and what others think about you is none of your business and hence #KeepCalm and enjoy life 😀

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  10. Thank you so much Darshith! Really appreciate the comment 😊 and yeah, Iam not that strong. . Just trying to be. .But I guess that’s a start and thats what matters right? Take care 😇

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  11. Kriswasp says:

    Great post. More people need this outlook. I must say though, 100 likes for a post? I aspire to 5 or 6 and I’m delighted with 1!
    Random aside: some men prefer short women. I don’t find myself attracted to tall women. So take that as a compliment, unless you were fishing, in which case I take it back 😉

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  12. Haha no! I wasn’t fishing! But I won’t deny I like compliments 🙂
    Thank you for the appreciation! *all smiles*

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  13. Kriswasp says:

    Who doesn’t like compliments? It really is more about not becoming reliant on them, and learning to accept them from the people that are genuinely trying to make you feel better, or sincerely wish to tell you how they feel.

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  14. Thank you for the sweet comment. I am taking your advice and not letting it go to my head! Keep up writing these posts!

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  15. This was absolutely beautiful, and totally on point! I love everything you said and the way you said it, I don’t think it could have been worded anymore perfectly. We often forget what actually follows behind a compliment and you dug into every detail.

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  16. That’s all I wanted to write in the post! 😇
    Happy to connect 😊

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  17. Haha! Don’t let it go over your head but do believe when I say you are amaze balls! Long time no post? Write one soon 😇

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  18. And that sweetheart just made me smile. .such a beautiful comment, thank you so much! x

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  19. Totally! Very true girl xx

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  20. You ain’t strong? Seriously? You are in WP and a doctor also(correct me if I am wrong) and that requires huge strength 😉 I think you are talking about the emotional affairs and with each passing day, you’ll evolve and so will your strength 🙂 Just hang in there Girl 😉

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  21. Getting a comment from my fav girl ❤ thank you so much!

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  22. Kriswasp says:

    I’m just pleased that I understood the intent of the post 🙂

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  23. Kudos to you for coming up with this beautiful piece! I loved every word. My take away lesson from this – “Never accept a compliment in response to a comoliment”

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  24. Jens says:

    …you are simply amazing and unique, Reva. If people won’t make this world a better place, then I wonder who ever will. There is an addictiveness in your blog 🙂 …my wife is a master in making compliments to complete strangers when she sees their beauty ( which does not need to be physical but could be anything like a gesture, how the handle things, etc.) , and it is funny to see how people start to bloom for a moment when addressed this way. They become aware that somebody just noticed them as a human being and not just as an anonymous service provider, checkout clerk, driver, etc. ) … I am totally in love with my wife for this trait in her character … and I am trying to learn from her. We are living in Germany an people here have a hard time showing emotions in public. It is my experience when a German is complimenting it is genuine. (well I am German … well done Reva!!! …and I hope to read a lot more from you) …PS: emailing did not work 😦

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  25. Jens says:

    … correction to the my second sentence in my comment ..If people LIKE YOU won’t make this world a better place, then I wonder who ever will.

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  26. Jens says:

    PS

    OH BUT I COULD SWIM IN THE SEAS OF YOUR INTELLIGENCE
    IN THE BODY THAT YOU ARE FLOATING IN
    IN THE RIVER OF YOUR WAYS
    SINGS A SONG THAT’S PLEADING CHARITY
    IN AN OCEAN OF YOUR EYE DIVING
    LOVE YOU ARE A BOOK
    OF PARABLES AND POETRY
    BUT THE LAST FEW PAGES MISSING PRINT
    TO EXITE AND TO SURPRISE
    TO ALLOW ME TO READ EVERYTHING
    BUT THERE ARE STILL SOME THING YOU’VE KEPT FROM INK

    by Wallis Bird

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  27. Thank you for this 🙂 I wanna say that I recently, this week that is, took a pledge to never edit my pictures. Editing pictures makes us look flawless which we aren’t. And yes, I have been doing it to ‘get more likes’. But it was a short term happiness. I knew that people were praising the edited version of me. So finally I took the lead and posted my unedited pictures. It made me happy 🙂 I can relate to your post 🙂

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  28. I can totally relate! Most of my pics are *no filter* these days!! Because, same reason 😁
    Thank you for stopping by. . xo. .

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  29. Haha! Do accept the genuine ones though 🙆🙈 thank you for a beautiful comment 😁

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  30. Kriswasp says:

    I look forward to reading your future posts. Especially if I’ll agree with their philosophy as much as I do with this one!

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  31. You have no idea how happy your comments have made me! It’s incredibly sweet of you!! Iam so touched!! Especially the last line, when a German is complimenting, it’s genuine!! ❤
    P. S – emailing did work! I saw your email & I even replied back to you!!! Check your spam folder 😇

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  32. Can you make me smile any more? Thank you so much! 🙈 *blush blush*

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  33. & this was the highlight of today! Thank you so very much!!!! ❤

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  34. Iam gonna especially comment and let you know I have posted a new one & Temme what you think 😊😉

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  35. Kriswasp says:

    Sounds like a fine plan to me!!

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  36. Abhayaaryaan says:

    Compliment is a double edge sword, some take it the way it is, and for others it induces a need or desire to attain more. Now that is not an unhealthy thing to do, but the path one chooses to attain the same defines what it is. Great post. Work hard, so you will be complimented. Don’t work hard just for the sake of getting complimented.

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  37. Couldn’t agree more! 😊

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  38. Fantastic post – very thought provoking. How much we define ourselves by the responses we get on social media definitely creeps up on us sometimes!

    And I love that Jill Scott quote at the end there – fab!

    Im very happy to have stumbled across your blog 😊

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  39. Thank you so much for such a beautiful comment! Made me smile so big! Happy blogging 😊

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  40. I absolutely loved your post.

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  41. Thank you so much! Really appreciate it! xo

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  42. Jens says:

    …I forgot to send the link to the corresponding song
    http://wp.me/p5MLVh-tw

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  43. Jens says:

    I checked all folders spam, deleted, etc … no email from Reva … God Hermes must be angry at me to do this to me 😩

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  44. Praiseworthy article. 🙂

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  45. Lemme check it out 😊

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  46. No worries, lemme send again 😇

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  47. Haha! Thank you! 😁

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  48. Thank you so much ❤

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  49. omachile says:

    You are welcome.

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  50. kellygrow says:

    I love this, it is so true! 🙂

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  51. Whoa! U wake up pretty early! Morning 🙂

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  52. Hey, Good morning. Yeah, mornings are really beautiful. 🙂

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  53. Div and Bean says:

    Some great points in this post 🙂

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  54. Thank you so much! What about writing? 😛

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  55. Div and Bean says:

    It was very well-written 🙂

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  56. drowningwings says:

    there is a saying -If you call a girl beautiful, she’ll believe you for minutes. If you call a girl ugly, she’ll believe it forever.
    that doesn’t mean she wants a compliment the thing is ,we humans love to get attention, hear compliments from others and yes positive compliments.
    nowadays people click pictures not just to make memories to post them on your social networking site fb wats app.. no matter how much you or i say that we don’t need attention but let call a person who says something about ourself and we will be the first one affected 😉 be strong no matter what your height is, you should have a beautiful heart and yes you are having that, i can see 🙂
    awsum post, yes it was a bit long, but enjoyed reading it..
    smartly written..good work dear (y)

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  57. Thank you so very much! I’ll try keeping it short next time 😅
    I appreciate that you read the entire piece! Honestly, I knew it’s tad too long, especially because so many pictures. . So it came as a relief that it wasn’t boring that you ll leave midway 🙆 thanks much 😊

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  58. drowningwings says:

    pictures on your post made it more interesting to read ..no need to make it short just write from your heart and your readers will enjoy it,as i enjoyed 🙂 ❤

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  59. Oh you’re so kind! Thank you so much! 😇

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  60. This is a lovely post…. so good to read. I really appreciate the articulation in ur writing 🙂

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  61. agarcia2134 says:

    Lovely post! I like the positive message you are putting out there. I have found that I used to make excuses if I got a compliment but I have learned to say thank you instead. funny how we can get 20 positive things said about us and one negative one and guess which one we remember? Yup the negative one!

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  62. Thank you so very much! 😊

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  63. I totally get that! Thank you so much for stopping by! And you’re beautiful, no kidding there ❤ xo

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  64. Adam says:

    Thanks for a lovely post as always. I’m not sure I could last 2 months on just one compliment but after receiving one last week it definitely kept me positive for the rest of the week 🙂

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  65. Thank you for such beautiful words! You’re too kind, sir 😇

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  66. Bekkie says:

    your blog is delightful!
    I adore dogs and I think the same about my cat Boo. I want a dog badly, one that can make a face like the dog in one of your pictures on another post.
    Thanks for stopping by my place enjoy the rest of your week.

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  67. ywwp says:

    i am just surprised with the count of likes/comments for your post…regards http://yourwellwisherprogram.wordpress.com

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  68. theonlysup says:

    Wonderful post. Yeah compliment, appreciation. Are important as they increase the confidence level. But reprimands also make u stronger . they help you move out of comfort zone. Overall we should accept both gracefully

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  69. Let me start by complimenting you. You are very beautiful with the most charming smile.You’ve written a masterpiece here which needs to be read and re-read. Bravo! I believe in compliments; and I think we do not compliment others enough. Compliments can do wonders in people’s lives; but as you rightly say, if they do not come that should not spoil our day. No one should be defined by compliments.What I enjoy most in your post is the balance.You state it very clearly. You are not against compliments. but we don’t need them to validate us. The quote by Jill Scott fits perfectly in this post. Don’t keep a compliment if you find something worth complimenting in someone. I want to assure you I love this post and you sound sweet through it. Keep shining!

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  70. Your blog’s got famous already, Reva. So many likes & comments straightway is a clear signal of making it big. I think it’s time that you start paying attention at the ethics of it. Give credits to the original artists of the images that you use by mentioning the source. You can add a hyperlink below an image or just link it while uploading from your Dashboard. Play it nice & legit.

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  71. Yes! ‘Accepting gracefully’ 😊

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  72. You have no idea how happy reading this comment had made me! Iam still smiling! Thank you so very much! 😇😀

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  73. Excuse me? If there’s a quote by someone in the image, their name is mentioned. .Just like Jill Scott in the end. .and second, it’s not about being famous. . And Mere 80 likes doesn’t make it famous. .nevertheless, I have 8k followers on twitter and none of my friends and family are even aware that I have an account, so do not tell me that. Third, legit? Are you saying Iam copying someone else’s work? I found the images on pinterest, and the ones I used were pinned by someone else, so do you expect me to go all the way where it started. . Who made that image and then post a link about it? News flash – blogging is what I like, not my work. .which apparently you don’t seem to think well. . So next time, think twice before saying something like that. .

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  74. Get ready to smile more. I know how your smile looks – sweet. I will make you smile all day if I can. From the picture on your site your smile lights up the whole environment. Hope it’s not too much of a compliment;. I say nothing but how I feel; and trust me for saying what I feel. Smile on lovely friend; the atmosphere will always be better with that charming smile on your face. I mean it.

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  75. This compliment is definitely going to make me smile whole day 💕

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  76. I like that. Please, do. Not only do the smiles look good but also they bring light and joy to many. I will definitely find a way to paste that smile on my site so I can see it often. If I say it is electrifying it is neither flattery nor exaggeration. If those close to you have not said this then they are definitely not blessed with the gift of appreciation or compliment. Smile again; and now for two days.

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  77. Beautiful thoughts
    As if picked from the various phases of life
    Keep writing ….
    By the way, you can find some more similar sort of thoughts of mine in the below link.
    https://wordpress.com/posts/pavanmedheramitla.wordpress.com

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  78. Will surely check it out! Thank you so much for stopping by 😊

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  79. Urmm. . The link opens up my posts?

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  80. nope, i guess that link finds way to mine

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  81. Lemme try again 🙂

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  82. Sure, or just browse through my posts. You will find them

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  83. The link Dint work, Idk why! I did browse! Happy to connect 😊

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  84. 🙂
    Yeah it’s always exciting to connect

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  85. ajayvyas says:

    These were the line that stuck in my mind after seeing your beautiful smile …..Your eyes shines so bright fading away the light of the moon.
    Your face is glowing like a radiance. of the sun.
    Your mesmerizing smile gets butterflies in my eyes.Your enchanting looks would hypnotize me.
    I fear could lose myself forever in you.
    Your lips so soft and red, the thought of kissing you is stuck in my head.
    Your beauty so bright and warm, shinning through the darkest storm.Your eyes sparkle like stars in the night sky, when I stare into them I feel like I am soaring high.
    My feelings for u are pure and true, I never stop thinking of you.
    The way you have composed is really amazing each and every words is connectable and having its won magic to keep you hold till the end
    God bless u
    And keep smiling

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  86. Dear very very talented blogger i have nominated you for the Liebster Award.. Kindly check it out.
    https://chicwithmessybun.wordpress.com/2015/09/25/liebster-award-nominations-yeah-nominationsss/

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  87. Iam flattered ❤
    Thank you so very much!
    It was such a beautiful read! Iam still smiling, thank you 🙆😇😊

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  88. Thank you so much darling! xo

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  89. ajayvyas says:

    Really 🙂 well ur smile is seriously so much adorable genuine beautiful smile of yours delicate and mild,Can soothe senses and tempers gone wild.A raging storm with ease you can calm,That smile of yours is ever so warm.😉😉😉 with beautiful eyes so dark and deep, they have me speechless not a sound exist not even a peep :

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  90. You’re really defining what praises are on a blog post that’s called ‘praise’ 😝 thank you so much! 😊😇

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  91. ajayvyas says:

    Does it really need to define u already did that girl 😉

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  92. Haha! That too in a elaborate way!! 😅 but seriously, thank you so much! Appreciate it 😊

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  93. You’re welcome.. stay blessed : )

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  94. You too! Will ping you as soon as I upload this! Some interesting questions, really excited about it!! 😁

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  95. n I’ll be looking forward to read your post: )

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  96. You got me totally wrong, Reva. Comment about the likes & reach of your blog post was a compliment. I’ve been blogging for 3 years & yet have never received this amount of likes. May be that’s the reason I feel your blog post did so well.

    Nor do I blog for money, I blog coz I like it & it has given me an identity in some way.

    I never said that your content was copied. In fact no one can ever say that, it’s original in its every possible way. Didn’t I appreciate your content before?

    About the ethics of blogging, it’s always said that you should give a hyperlink to the owner of the creative. That adds to their credibility. Mentioning just their name won’t do any good to their SEO. That’s the basic funda behind giving a hyeperlink.

    About the Pinterest pins, be it Pinterest or anything on internet where you might have found the image, there’s no need to research for the original source, you’re recommended to mention the hyperlink from where you found the image. As simple as that.

    I still don’t understand what part of my comment offended you. All I tried to do was a little help.

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  97. Hopefully I won’t disappoint though! 😀 what’s your name? And for the record, I love ‘chicwithmessybun’ ❤

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  98. My name’s Bhavya Mishra.. n i wanted to give you the same compliment.. i love ‘messupdressup’

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  99. Hey Bhavya! So nice to meet you 💕

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  100. Oh! My bad! I smelled sarcasm there, and I Dint like it! No worries! We are good 😇
    P. S – I did update my ‘about me’ page as you suggested last time 😝

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  101. Nice to meet you too.. what’s your name?

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  102. Happy to hear that 🙂

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  103. Oh Iam sorry! I thought I told you already! It’s Reva 😇

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  104. charlypriest says:

    Glad you stumbled upon my crazy little blog. Overall this post is about in my humble opinion about love. Expressing yourself to others in a lovable way. Postive message your sending. Although I will add that if it wasn´t because of myself that I give me a compliment every morning I´d be dead by now.

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  105. I can totally relate! This is why I have said in the post, ‘you define yourself’. . Happy to connect 😀

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  106. charlypriest says:

    same here, happy to connect. Looking forward to Reading more of your posts when time permits.

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  107. Much appreciated 😊

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  108. NJ says:

    Such a wonderful post 🙂 I loved your pictures they added humor but your words brought the depth that is needed to understand the truth of life 🙂

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  109. This means a lot to me! Thank you so much 😄

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  110. NJ says:

    My pleasure 🙂

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  111. you’ve a beautiful name..: )

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  112. Thanks love! You use Twitter?

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  113. I don’t.. but I’ll be there too soon..

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  114. Lemme know when you can! 🙂

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  115. Are you on Facebook?

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    I have an inspiration to share with you this story with you.
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  117. Haan ji Iam! Do connect at ‘Reva Parihar’ 😁

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  118. Lovely blog! I loved Viola David’s speech too! 💕

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  119. Thank you so very much ❤

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  120. Erika Kind says:

    Hi, I just read your latest post and I like it a lot. I agree, there is nothing wrong with compliments. It is good to get them because it gives us a good feeling and we are worth it. But we must be careful to not make us depending on them. 😊

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  121. Hahaha, I know you’re post was all about compliments but bear with me when I say this;
    I loved your post and you’re writing!
    P.S- Hope I made your day *cheeky grin*

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  122. Yes you did yes you did :*

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  123. Thanks love! Appreciate it 🙂

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  124. Happy blogging ❤ xo!!

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  125. Erika Kind says:

    Yeah, same to you 😀 ❤

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  126. TAW says:

    Hi there! I’m here!!! It was a good read. Love the graphic as well as the words. Keep it up! 🙂

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  127. This is a wonderful post specially cause it puts the bitter yet beautiful truth. Nothing makes a woman beautiful than the thought that she is beautiful herself. I do agree compliments are necessary to keep yourself boosted and feel confident but they should not become a necessity and lack of which would make one insecure. All those editing and brightening and all the other a b c of photo editing can only work on pictures and not on the human being…so i guess one needs to beautiful in thoughts and action !! Lovely blog and would be coming back for more for sure!!! Happy blogging gal!! 🙂 🙂
    P.S – lovely smile!

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  128. I want to shower a lot of compliments and ❤ on this post, but i'll control 😉 If I start I might just end up using all the adjectives in the Language 🙂
    but seriously girl…what can I say..actually I want to say lots..I ❤ your choice of pictures and your writing.. ❤ ly.
    I'm gonna re-blog this 🙂 🙂 🙂

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  129. Hey! Thank you so much! 😁

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  130. wilsonagaba says:

    I’m so happy you liked! thanks.

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  131. I looked you up.. found you.. but couldn’t send you a friend request or a message

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  132. Compliments! Compliments!! Compliments!!! to YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!
    Here I Press the follow button for You.
    Fine Regards,
    Shiva

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  133. Hey Gimme your id! I’ll add up!

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  134. Aww thank you so much!

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  135. Wow! Iam still in awe! Thank you so much for such an amazing comment! Happy blogging to you too, x ❤

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  136. Bhavya Mishra, Chandigarh.. i am pretty easy to find. : ) hopefully see you soon on Facebook

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  137. Check your fb 😁

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  138. Martian says:

    Awesome post, I missed you for long, “See your beauty without a mirror and compliment” doesn’t meant for your daughter its for everyone on the earth! Don’t be selfish to say it to you tell your daughter alone 😛

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  139. Bekkie says:

    You have a great blog, very popular. I enjoyed it very much! Hugs!

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  140. You just made me smile so big! Thank you so much! 😊

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  141. Martian says:

    i got what i wished 😛

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  142. You’re so kind. It’s not popular though 😅

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  143. You’re amaze balls 😊

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  144. How did I miss this. One post coming write up! Iam still smiling! Thank you so very much love ❤

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  145. Martian says:

    Lol

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  146. Erika Kind says:

    Hey, very cool. I am very happy you enjoyed it so much! Please ping back to me. I don’t want to miss the post 🙂

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  147. Bekkie says:

    Give it time, it takes time to build a site’s readers and not always easy. Writing with other people, taking classes, joining stuff and following other people’s site’s on WP is a good way. You watch!

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  148. I will! And I ll pester you till you read it! 😛 just kidding! Thanks again for the nomination 🙂

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  149. I loved how your blog says, “from my muse to your eyes” ❤
    Maybe someday. Honestly, this blog is the only thing where I never worried about followers! It was more for myself. It’s a happy feeling that others loved it too 😊

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  150. Erika Kind says:

    Just do 🙂 I meant it 😀

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  151. Bekkie says:

    Unfortunately I picked another template that doesn’t show my tagline but thanks!

    I know, I love my blog too they are such a nice place to meet wonderful people like you!

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  152. Great post. Social media has turned the world upside down. There are people on facebook so desperate for compliments. It is sad. I laughed at the image of the girl fishing for compliments. Ironically, on this post regarding compliments, I will bestow a few on you. This is well thought out. You picked the perfect images to convey your thoughts. Great post and good writing.

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  153. Thank you so much! Appreciate it 💕

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  154. dezaro says:

    Compliments are great to receive but it’s strange that we don’t always believe them… For example, when a guy says you look good in a dress… I usually wonder if they do mean it, especially if you asked him how it looks… And our reaction is always like, no you’re lying…I look bloated or fat or whatever… Maybe it’s the lack of self confidence that does this after seeing a beautiful woman on the street, rocking a bodycon dress and she doesn’t even have a tummy…

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  155. Oh honey, you do realise you’re beautiful ❤

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  156. dezaro says:

    When you look in the mirror and realise that yes, because everyone’s gorgeous – it just takes the right person to see it ❤

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  157. Iam waiting for mine then! 😀

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  158. dezaro says:

    And you my dear, are Beautiful!

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  159. You are too kind! And I love your blog man! ❤

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  160. lol 😀
    you are hilarious

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  161. Beautiful 😍❤️😀

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  162. Thanks much! You already know Iam a fan of your blog! 💕😚

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  163. lustfulheart says:

    Beauty isn’t skin deep. Neither is my praise. You’re genuinely adorable.

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  164. I believe complementing someone puts a smile on their face and a in their heart a warm space.
    P.s. you look beautiful

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  165. Oh thank you. I did smile 💕

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  166. My work is done then! 🙂

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  167. Oh you’re sweet! 💕

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  168. L. P. says:

    Hey, regarding this, “One guy commented on one of my Instagram post, ‘you just missed out on height, otherwise super hot.'” That sounds like a lame attempt at what’s called “negging.” Once you recognize what they’re trying to do, it just falls flat. See https://www.google.com/#q=negging: Negging is a rhetorical strategy whereby a person makes a deliberate backhanded compliment or otherwise insulting remark to another person in order to undermine his or her confidence in a way that gains approval…

    Loved this post! I have a similar cautious regard for those who overdo compliments.

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  169. Thanks love! Especially for ‘negging’. .Something new! xoxo. .

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  170. Great post. I am reminded of a research I once came across. The researchers were trying to determine the point after which compliments stop working. Basically, they complimented people until their subjects asked them to stop.

    Turns out, there is no such point. We’ll eat up compliments as long as they are served to us.

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  171. Whoa you are well read 😄 thank you so much for your feedback! Appreciate it ❤

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  172. I think what matters most is that you don’t let all the praises get to you. It’s fine to feel happy about it but there’s a fine line between being joyous when someone appreciates you and when it actually dictates your identity. ☺

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  173. lustfulheart says:

    Happy Diwali ! 🙂 It might be inappropriate to sketch you, but to share with you might be even more so. What is the protocol in such cases ? Please advise 🙂

    Love.

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  174. me says:

    You always bless my soul with your rich and undiluted musings. If you don’t mind, i’d love to reblog this sometime.

    I have nominated you especially for the Sisterhood award, and I hope you accept it from me with as much love as ‘ve conferred it to you.

    https://minisculediary.wordpress.com/2015/11/24/no-boys-allowed/

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  175. Haha. You can sketch? That’s not appropriate at all! 😀

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  176. That’s the sweetest thing I saw today. Thank you so much ❤
    I accept it. And I can’t even begin to tell you how happy that has made me. . Lot of love. . Xoxo. .

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  177. lustfulheart says:

    oh yes, and I follow you on twitter too ! 😛

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  178. lustfulheart says:

    hehe ! 😛 Sigh no sketch then ! 🙂

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  179. Beautiful post! ♥

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  180. You’re very welcome!:)

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  181. ShethP says:

    Love this post and the thoughts that went into writing it! It’s spot on and I hope more people from today’s generation get to read it… 🙂 Thanks for sharing!

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  182. Iam so glad you liked it! Thank you ❤

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  183. Hargun Wahi says:

    When I say you are doing a great job with the posts, I ain’t giving a compliment for a compliment. I do like the way you carried the whole theme from start to the end.
    👍 thumbs up!

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  184. I am so glad Hargun! Really appreciate it ❤

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  185. Really liked this one. Well written too! Personally, I think if you know in your heart you are good, you don’t ever need compliments. Same goes for ‘self esteem’. We don’t need to rise above others to feel good. If we do, we’re looking at it the wrong way. 🙂 now lets see some poetry from that sweet heart! your own…

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  186. Really appreciate the comment! Thank you so much 💕

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