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Walking through fire!

A goodbye is always awful. You know in your mind, that you are better off without them, yet you can’t. But this post is not about her being lovesick. It’s about her accepting the truth. .It’s about the ‘no drama’ phase. It’s about the time, ‘after moving on’.

Right after a break up, your pals will immediately tell you to move on. They will say it’s the best medicine. But that’s where you go wrong. Don’t run away from the raging storm inside you. You can’t escape the very thing that’s ripping you apart. What hells must you endure before you see that the cure for love sickness is never somebody else. The only prescription you will ever need is time.

There are big problems & then there are small problems. There was this one time when you thought things would never work out the way you want them to. .well, fuck! Because things hardly work out the way you want them to. But somehow, someday you just make it through all the shit you thought you could never clear up. Guess what, I did. And so did a hundred others. & so will a Thousand others.
Its never as bad as it could be. .
Things are never as bad as they could be.
You’re here.
You’re alive.
You’re fine!

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38 thoughts on “Walking through fire!

  1. That’s incredibly sweet of you to say that! Iam glad you liked it! It was one of the posts I wrote when I just started my blog (although I shared it pretty late), so. It really means a lot πŸ™‚

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  2. You’re absolutely right. Everyone should process their thoughts and feelings after a break-up. It’s healthy for us to do that and it does actually help us mend our hearts so we can move on. This is pretty good.

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  3. Wow, I feel like you’re telling my story in all of your write-ups! You’re a wonderful writer. And truly, in the end what really matters is that you’re alive and a lot stronger, ready to face tomorrow 😁

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  4. “There was this one time when you thought things would never work out the way you want them to. .well, fuck! Because things hardly work out the way you want them to” made me smile. Do you know the saying “We plan, God laughs” ? You hit the nail on its head. I have a feeling that writing has a therapeutical effect on you… and sharing experiences with others can have the same effect too! Because in the end, no matter where we are from, who we are, what we do – we go through similar (if not the same) experiences when it comes down to certain aspects of life, such as love.

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  5. Uh, I forgot… yes, I absolutely agree with you! After a breakup we should give ourselves time… time to heal. How often do individuals get caught up in another relationship as soon as they have stepped out of a previous one? The wound has not healed yet, but they are carrying the infection into the new relationship. This can cause things to turn left quickly! And there it goes. Individuals dealing with the grief (or baggage) of the other person, paying for the broken glasses. This can cause a vicious cycle, as the other person that is involved can be wounded too.

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  6. Hi! I find this piece endearing! It’s the truth! The long hard path that you need to get there… But more often we’re told of different shorter routes, rather temporary and not so reliable as they may seem! So all in all kudos for putting this out there and making the world a better place! Many smiles to you…. ☺️

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  7. “Don’t run away from the raging storm inside you. You can’t escape the very thing that’s ripping you apart” – You got that right.

    The term ‘Running away’ clearly shows that you lack courage. We are all running away because that’s what we have been taught for so many years. Focus on something else, NO. You can’t get rid off something just by running away. When you cling to something you can say you are attached to it. But if you run away from something it doesn’t mean you escaped it, it means still you are indirectly attached to it. Negative attachment is a complex subject. Not most people aware of.

    Thanks for sharing your piece of work. Keep going.

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  8. “You’re here.
    You’re alive.
    You’re fine!”
    So very true you could not have put it any better. We dust our selves off and move on, no matter how slowly we do it.

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